The Peace That Comes from Controlling the Controllables
How much time do you spend worrying about things you can't control? Maybe it's whether someone likes you. Whether your children make the "right" decisions. Whether you get the promotion. Whether your relationship/friendship works out. Whether people understand your intentions. Whether life unfolds according to your plan. I've been there too. For so much of my life, I believed that if I worked hard enough and planned carefully enough, I could influence almost every outcome. But life has a way of teaching us otherwise. One of the greatest lessons I've learned is this: You can't always control what happens to you, but you can control how you respond. And that changes everything. The Circle You Control (SEE TOP OF BLOG) The larger circle contains everything you wish you could control: The smaller circle inside it is where your energy belongs. Inside this circle are the things you actually control. Every minute spent trying to control the outer circle is...