What Thirty-Nine Years Taught Me About Friendship
The picture on the left is from 1987 in kindergarten, the top right is 2000 our senior year of high school, and the bottom left is last weekend 2026 If you've followed me for a while, you probably know I'm an introvert. Add being a Capricorn to the mix, and my friendship circle is intentionally small. I know this might sound a little harsh, but I'm not someone who is always looking to make new friends. I've also realized that "friend groups" just aren't for me. Even in our 40s, there can still be drama, and I've reached a place in life where I simply don't have room for it. Instead, the friendships that fill my heart are the quiet ones. The one-on-one conversations over coffee. Long walks. Lunches that somehow last for hours. Phone calls that start with, "Do you have a minute?" and end an hour later. I grew up in Massachusetts but went to college in Kentucky so I have lived in Kentucky/Indiana for the past 26 years. Most of my clo...