Don't Wait for Someday
One of my core beliefs is that life is made up of the lessons we learn along the way. As much as I wish it weren't true, some of the biggest lessons come through loss. Over the years, I've lost several people, all much sooner than anyone expected. Just a few weeks ago, a colleague and friend passed away unexpectedly at only 33 years old from a heart condition. Like so many sudden losses, there wasn't an explanation that made it feel fair. People often say, "Everything happens for a reason." I've never found comfort in that phrase because, in my experience, not everything has a reason that we can understand. Some things are simply heartbreaking. But I do believe we can choose to find meaning in what happens. We can allow loss to teach us something about how we want to live. One lesson always rises to the surface for me: life is incredibly unpredictable. We spend so much of our lives waiting. Waiting for the promotion. Waiting for the relationship. ...